Healing isn’t a destination — it’s a lifelong journey.

Healthy Healing Hurts

Spiritual Counselor

Shalanda Makalo

Welcome to Healthy Healings Hurts I’m Shalanda. At 12 years old, I made a choice: the world cannot have me. That choice began my healing journey — a journey I’ve walked every single day for the last 35+ years.I’m not a textbook therapist. I’m a natural, spiritual counselor who helps men and women face their deepest wounds and retrieve the child within they’ve abandoned. Because your inner child doesn’t need a surface-level “connection.” That child needs to be remembered, rescued, and brought home to you.My path hasn’t been easy. I’ve lived the pain, the setbacks, and the long nights of asking, “Why me?” But as I grew through my own self-healing, that question transformed into, “Why not me?”God showed me who I was at just five years old. And from listening to that inner voice, I came to understand: I had to go through everything I went through so I would know how to lead others out of it.I know the pain people face in different stages of healing — because I’ve experienced it myself. I had to drag myself from “Why me?” (the pity party) to “Why not me?” (the Phoenix rising).Healing hurts — but healthy healing hurts in a way that transforms.I learned that my vibration and my frequency shaped my life. Although I didn’t cause every wound, I had to face the truth: it all starts with me. I can’t receive the goodness of what’s on frequency 180 if I’m vibrating on frequency 35.It’s like tuning into music: if you want jazz, you have to turn the dial to the jazz station. You can’t turn to the rock station and get upset they’re not playing jazz. You’re not on the right frequency.That lesson — one I had to wrestle with and rise from on my own — is what shaped me into the spiritual counselor I am today.And if you’re not sure you’re ready to begin this journey with Healthy Healing Hurts, that’s okay. Healing has its own timing. In the meantime, you’re invited to explore free teachings and reflections on my YouTube channel. Let your spirit take in what it needs, at the pace it needs. When you’re ready, your next step will be waiting here.

I’m fully invested in your healing. You are worth every step we take together.

Begin Your Healing Journey

Healing is a journey, and every step you take is sacred. To support you on this path, I offer one-on-one sessions designed to meet you where you are and guide you toward retrieving and nurturing your inner child. Choose the session that works best for you and take that step toward reclaiming the child within and healing fully.

One-on-One Sessions:

30-Minute Session (Zoom) $150: A focused session to begin exploring your journey.60-Minute Session (Google Meet) $250: A deeper session to go further into your healing.

Every session is a safe, confidential space where you are seen, heard, and supported.Next Step: If you’re ready to begin, fill out the application below. This allows me to understand where you are on your journey so we can make the most of our time together. After your application, you’ll be able to select the session that fits your needs.

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Healthy Healing Hurts YouTube Channel

Healing begins with truth, courage, and a safe space to grow. That’s why I’ve created free, story-driven teachings on YouTube — to help you start walking the path toward retrieving your inner child and building a whole, healed life.

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